#: <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="letter-spacing: 0px;"> </span><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; font-family: 宋体;">“我的童年是伴随着他们的争吵与打架中度过的”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">一位挚友这样给我说到,而我的内心面对她,是一种无法言说的感觉。怀着难过的心情毫无作用的安慰几句,因为我明白,在她的内心里,那些往事是会在心里难以抹去的,而我们旁人,只能轻轻的为他拂上一层纱,希望那些记忆能够模糊一些,在往后的日子里阳光明媚。但,这不禁让我想起,林语堂先生在自传中说过:究而言之,一个人一生出发时所需要的,除了康健的身体和灵敏的感觉之外,只是一个快乐的孩童时期——充满家庭的爱和美丽的自然环境便够了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"><br></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">也许在每个人的心里,都会留下许许多多零零散散的童年记忆,而那些感受或许也在不知不觉中,影响着我们的一生。反观当今社会,离婚率越来高,周边的许多亲戚朋友,仿佛把婚姻当作儿戏,每隔三差五都会在网络上看到某某明星出轨、离婚</span><span lang="EN-US">. . . </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">这不禁让我的内心逐渐对婚姻这件事充满了疑问与畏惧。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">婚姻本身应该是一件充满美好色彩的事,前提是彼此一定要因为“爱”而选择在一起,相度余生。孩子也应该是一个属于爱的结晶,一个崭新的生命降临世界,为人父母的,更是肩负着呵护他们成长的使命。老舍先生曾说过:“我的真正教师,把性格传给我的,是我的母亲。母亲并不识字,她给我的是生命的教育”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"><br></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">也许每个人的婚姻与感情在路途中会出现许许多多未知的可能,但无论如何,尊重自己内心选择,用真正的对一个生命的爱意去温暖他们的成长,这是我们所期望的。也许感情的缝隙,给彼此带来了伤害,但是孩子不应该作为缝隙里的残骸,。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10.5pt;mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman";mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA"> </span><span style="font-size:10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US; mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA">“你是不知道,有一次我没有经过她的允许去我爸哪里吃了饭,回家她就说,你还知道回来呀,就在哪里呀,而且还有个后妈,多好啊</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-size:10.5pt;mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA">. . .</span><span style="font-size:10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US; mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA">我很多时候觉得,其实我是一个多余的存在</span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US;mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA"> </span><span style="font-size:10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US; mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA">”看到挚友给我倾诉的,我的内心不禁一阵心酸,说不出话来。</span><div><font face="宋体"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br></span></font><div><span style="font-size:10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US; mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA"></span><br> </div><div><span style="font-size:10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-size:11.0pt;font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;mso-ansi-language:EN-US; mso-fareast-language:ZH-CN;mso-bidi-language:AR-SA"><br></span></div><div><font face="宋体">原创文章,谢绝转载</font><br></div> </div>