欢喜plus:<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin"><br></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">最近娱乐圈男星被爆出家暴、出轨的新闻层出不穷,前几天热门综艺《吐槽大会》的策划人兼段子手李诞,在望京酒吧里和朋友喝酒的一段视频就霸占了整整一天的热搜词条。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">有人拍下当时李诞和一位女性朋友的亲密动作,直指两人舌吻,李诞出轨。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">从视频里的角度来看,两人的动作的确很亲密,但是不是接吻不是很明显。要说没什么事,两个酒鬼喝醉了东倒西歪也说得过去。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">李诞的工作室也发布声明称,两人只是好友,爆料方是想炒作。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">参与酒局的女方,也就是和李诞过分亲密的女孩子,也发了一条看似特别坦然的微博解释:</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">可问题就在于,前阵子李诞刚在一档节目里透露自己已婚的事实。女方是网红黑尾酱,两人时不时地秀个恩爱,因此大家也知道他们的关系。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">这下微博炸了。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">大家纷纷讨论已婚男人和异性的距离到底在哪里,这样亲密都不算出轨,那一定要发生关系才叫出轨吗?</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"> <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">其实不只是李诞,其他明星也因为这种普通人无法理解的“亲密”引起过不小的争议。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">往前推,是周一围接过女助理的奶茶,毫无顾忌地用同一根吸管喝了起来。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">当时大家都对这样的“不拘小节”感到难以接受,结合平时周一围少有在公众场所、公共平台提起自己的妻子朱丹的做法,于是大家纷纷判断周一围出轨女助理。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">周一围最后出来道歉,却是为了自己随地乱吐珍珠的行为。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">吃瓜群众对这一不按套路出牌的打法并不是很感冒,可以看出男女相处应保持适度距离的观念深深根植于大家的心里。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">再举另外一件事儿,张雪迎和秦俊杰拍摄《泡沫之夏》期间,拍摄休息,两人同喝一碗胡辣汤,这件事也让吃瓜群众讨伐了一番。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">一来是秦俊杰杨紫当时正在交往,男方的主权属于谁很明显。二是依据我们的生活经验来看,普通男女之间出现这样的动作,往往代表着两者的关系有暧昧,或是一方对另一方的有意亲近。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">可明星们都说,这是他们朋友之间的相处方式。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">炒</span><span lang="EN-US">CP</span><span style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">也好,误会也好,这些行为和大部分人的认知都是相悖的。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">有人会说,他对待你的方式,都是你教会的,你允许的。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">所以朱丹并非被绿,而是周一围的行为,并没有触碰到她的底线。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">也有人玩得开,可以接受开放式的关系。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">但对我们这些普通人来说,要求的是一颗真心对另一颗真心,其他的都要排除在外。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">当代男友,就必须要紧紧把握好自己的操守的思想觉悟,对其他女孩子的靠近保持距离、对别人的追求果断拒绝、对自己的女朋友保持绝对的忠诚。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">爱情的一个很明显的属性就是自私。如果是我,我也接受不了我对象和别人这么亲密,立马闹分手。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:宋体; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">毕竟我交的,又不是共享男友。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>