sisi: <span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.4; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 122%;">与其扔扔扔,不如学会思考的能力<br /> <br /></span> <div class="rich_media_meta_list" style="margin-bottom: 18px; font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 122%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 0px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961);"><span id="post-date" class="rich_media_meta rich_media_meta_text" style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 10px; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(140, 140, 140);">2016-05-04</span> </span><font color="#8c8c8c"><span style="font-size: 20px;">转</span></font></div> <div class="rich_media_content " id="js_content" style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: -apple-system-font, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', sans-serif; font-size: 20px; line-height: 25px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: 122%;"> <section class="article135" label="powered by 135editor.com" style="font-family: 微软雅黑; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 30px; font-size: 17px;">我们习惯了拥有。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">拥有电视机、跑步机、各种料理机;拥有苹果电脑、谷歌眼镜、一克拉的钻戒;拥有小轿车、储藏室、巨大而布满灰尘的书房;拥有无数马克杯、布玩偶、落满尘埃的花瓶、健身椅……</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">甚至在家居店里看到漂亮的工艺品,都要统统买回家占为己有,然后放进高高的柜子里,再也不见天日。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">我们就像一个糊里糊涂的古代帝王,霸占着后宫佳丽三千却让她们孤独终老。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br /><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">虽然,拥有一件物品,或者拥有一个人,本身是一件美好的事情。但是当我们霸占了太多物品,就会呈现出另一种面目,忘记了自己为什么要拥有,也忘记了美好生活的本质。</span><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">比如卧室里的电视机。我曾经问过很多人,卧室里的电视机你到底看不看?95%以上的人都说不会去看。那么,你有没有想过,为什么要在卧室里摆放这个电视机呢?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">似乎很少有人会去想这个问题。在卧室里放一个电视机,本来就是天经地义、理所当然的事情,所有人都是这么做,历来都是这样,为什么要去质疑呢?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">我们好像习惯了按照理所当然的方式去生活。该拥有的、该得到的,一切都好像本来如此,就像我们被规定好了的人生。</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">我们从来不去质疑它,就像我们从来不去质疑拥有的这些物品。为什么要拥有,为什么要这样摆放呢?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br /><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 15px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; font-size: 15.73px; line-height: 1.5; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, Verdana, sans-serif; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 17px; line-height: 1.6; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important;">我所见过的最有个性的房间摆放,是一个没有沙发和电视机的客厅。原本该放电视机的地方,放了整整一排书橱。原本该放沙发的地方,做成了盘腿而坐的榻榻米。</span><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br style="max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;" /><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">客厅的主人是一位高级教师,她的女儿后来考上了美国名校。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">有想法和见地的人,从来不会被动地接受一切理所当然的事情。他们对于一切都有自己的尺度,也有自己的思考和意志。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">这也就是为什么,那些容易成功的人,都会处处显示出与众不同。他们从不会人云亦云地生活,而是把生活中的每一个细节,</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">都变成自己想要的样子。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br /><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">有这个思维高度和实力胆量,才能拥有你想要的人生。然而大部分人却在人云亦云地生活,连这些小小的物品,都未曾追随自己的真实意愿。</span><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">就好比,明知道卧室里的电视机如同鸡肋,</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">又有多少人会真正去掉这个电视机,留一片宁静的空间呢?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">而极简主义之所以迷人,并不在于它让我们的生活变得多么空灵。而在于,它让我们成为我们每个人自己。</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">不再是人云亦云地拥有那些物品。而是面对自己的真实意愿。把生活、把周遭之物、把所有本该美好的时光,统统都变成自己想要的样子。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">除了不再人云亦云地生活,极简主义也教我们看清事物的本质。不再被自己迷惑。不再被那些可有可无的东西扰乱了你本来清晰的人生。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br /><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br /><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">比如,束之高阁的水晶杯。你曾经一见钟情将它买回家,却把它锁进了漆黑的阁楼,直到上面落满了尘埃,也未曾再拿出来使用。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">那么你有没有想过,这样的一件物品,为什么要将它买回家呢?是为了让它散发出光芒?是为了妆点你的房间?又或者,仅仅是喜欢?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">说是喜欢,却不曾拿来使用,也不曾好好欣赏与爱护,白白浪费了一个上等的水晶杯。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">我们的生活中有多少失误、有多少错失的遗憾,都是源于那些迷惑我们自己的人类本能。习惯占有的本能,冲动的本能,让我们误以为眼前的一切就是真相。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">然而真相却是,喜欢一样东西未必要占有。比起拥有,使用和体验更为重要。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">比如山川,比如大海。我们都爱在这无限风光中尽情奔跑。但是我们从来没有想过要买下那些山川和大海。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <br /><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">你所喜爱的一切,应该以各种形式存在于你的生命体验之中,无论这些物品来自于何方。</span><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">比如我心爱的中国瓷,我要去了解它们、见识它们、在各种场合用心抚摸。</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">这一切,都比拥有它们却锁在漆黑的阁楼里来得重要得多。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">类似的例子不计其数。我们习惯了去拥有,却是否曾真正地想一想,拥有这些物品到底是为了什么?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">我曾经有一个普普通通的风筝,存放在柜子里一直过了5年。我一直想,假如有一天</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">去世纪公园,我可以带过去放飞。然而5年过去了,却从来没有拿出来放飞。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">有一天我突然意识到,其实重要的并不是这个风筝,而是如果有一天我去了世纪公园,是否有风筝可以放?其实,</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">世纪公园门口到处都有卖风筝的小摊小贩。何愁没有风筝放呢?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">这样想着的时候,发现这个风筝完全不重要。虽然我曾经当宝一样存放了5年。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">原来,很多我们直觉上感到重要的东西,往往根本不重要。</span></p><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">曾经还有人问我,假如我扔掉了一双鞋,后来又想穿,怎么办呢?我想说,这双鞋真的这么重要吗?你不可以穿别的鞋吗?</span><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">事物的本质往往很简单,纷杂是流于表面的乱象。</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">比如表面看上去很重要的风筝,比如表面上纠结的那双鞋。其实都有这么重要吗?在你的人生重要清单里,都有这些选项吗?</span></p><span style="font-size: 17px;"> </span> <p style="margin-bottom: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">只有不纠结于表面的这些,</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">才能抵达真正重要的地方。</span><span style="font-family: 宋体; max-width: 100% ! important; word-wrap: break-word ! important; font-size: 17px;">只有拨开层层叠叠的物品,才会看到云淡风轻。这才是极简主义,真正迷人的所在。</span></p> </section> </div>